Welcome

Welcome toThe Art of Social


The number one place to master your social skills and naturally connect with anyone.

Who’s it for

The Art of Social is for High Achievers

Are you successful in your career but don't have the social skills to match?
Do you see people you want to talk to but stay glued to your phone instead?
Are you fed up of relying on Tinder to date people, despite the opportunities that pass you by in real life?

If you want more from your life then you're in the right place.

How it works

Are you ready to reveal your most attractive self?

The Art of Social is a place to learn how to become more confident and attractive, create genuine connections and develop real relationships. That means with the people we meet, with our sexual partners and most importantly ourselves. 

We focus primarily on romantic connection, but the main focus is on you becoming whole, content and attractive within yourself.  If you are someone still stuck in The Game of chasing sex and love, I created a page just for you Gamers.

What you’ll learn at the Art of Social goes way beyond boy meets girl, and will teach you universal skills that you can carry forth in every area of your life. Creating healthier relationships at work, better friendships, and fostering a greater sense of social freedom wherever you go.  

Our Philosophy

Learn the Art. Not the Strategy

There is an overwhelming amount of advice out there when it comes to meeting new people, yet it focuses on implementing strategies, tactics and controlling behaviour. This only distances yourself from that which you truly desire - genuine connection.

I’m going to show you the true way - the way of the artist. Which is not about masking yourself with techniques and lines and trying to be a photocopy of someone else. You'll discover the underlying principles which cultivate your own unique style. There is no trickery, or things you have to remember to rattle off. You can express yourself assertively, yet effortlessly. And just like any real artist, the reward does not come from the validation of others but on the quality of your expression.

And guess what? That’s genuinely attractive.

Meet John

Let me tell you my story

In 2009 I graduated with a first class honours degree in Art Direction. But then disaster struck and I broke up with a girl I was in love with. I was in so much pain and confusion that I saw sex as my salvation and set about chasing it. I became a coach for internationally renowned dating companies Get the Guy and The Natural Lifestyles but something didn’t feel right.

During that time I went on my own hero’s journey of self exploration and eventually healed my broken heart. Out of that work Social Heartistry was born, which teaches people how to become their own social artists, whilst addressing their own buried emotions. I now travel the world teaching individuals and companies how to connect to themselves and others in a more heartfelt and co-creative way than was ever thought possible.

Meet John

Let me tell you my story

In 2009 I graduated with a first class honours degree in Art Direction. But then disaster struck and I broke up with a girl I was in love with. I was in so much pain and confusion that I saw sex as my salvation and set about chasing it. I became a coach for internationally renowned dating companies Get the Guy and The Natural Lifestyles but something didn’t feel right.

During that time I went on my own hero’s journey of self exploration and eventually healed my broken heart. Out of that work Social Heartistry was born, which teaches people how to become their own social artists, whilst addressing their own buried emotions. I now travel the world teaching individuals and companies how to connect to themselves and others in a more heartfelt and co-creative way than was ever thought possible.

Are you ready to make the step up in your dating life?

Talk to John