Budapest Residential
Here’s what you’re looking at in Budapest, Hungary:
- Beautiful, thrilling and romantic – take leisurely walks along the Danube river or explore the thriving night life
- Small, easy to navigate, but still full of surprises. Perfect for creating instant adventures and dating locals.
- With their dark hair and dark eyes, you may well fall in love at first sight with the people you meet.
- Every night of the week is like a weekend. Cool little ruin bars bustling with friendly locals and travellers at every turn.
Itinerary
- 3 days of LIVE coaching so you can learn the art of connection, sexuality and social freedom
- Maximum of 2 students allowed on course to optimise coaching
- Around the clock support so you have intimate time with John to create a literal failure-is-impossible environment
- Hidden microphone sessions so I can pin-point you to the simple steps that will push you past your barriers and create immense breakthroughs that can be seen and enjoyed immediately
- 18+ hours of personalised mentoring I spend all of my time and energy making sure that you experience the Social Heartistry philosophy, internal change, confidence and social & sexual freedom
- Live practical coaching at beaches, coffee shops, streets, bars, nightclubs. You’ll leave knowing absolutely how to interact with people in any location, and be able to do it yourself with freedom and without hesitation
- I’ll go in-depth with you on the 6 Golden Principles and how one small mindset shift removes all of the social demons of anxiety, rejection and pain, and how it turns “The Game” into “The Party.”
- Master your most valuable life skills whilst having the Adventure of a lifetime
This Course is perfect for
- Advanced students who have gone through the academy training program or have previous exposure to John’s material
- Men that have gone through pick up artist/game route and want to learn something more evolved and healthy
- Men wanting to learn about tantric sex and communication
- Those that want a holistic lifestyle change beyond women and have a high level of self-awareness
- An excellent team player who can support his fellow students
- Someone who is willing to stand the heat – The pace will be fast and exhilarating
+ accommodation included
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Kiev Residential
Here’s what you’re looking at in Kiev, Ukraine:
- A dynamic and inspirational city bustling with life and opportunity
- Arguably the most beautiful women in the world live here.
- Every night of the week is like a weekend. from classy cocktails bar to alternative grungey bars.
Itinerary
- 3 days of LIVE coaching so you can learn the art of connection, sexuality and social freedom
- Maximum of 2 students allowed on course to optimise coaching
- Around the clock support so you have intimate time with John to create a literal failure-is-impossible environment
- Hidden microphone sessions so I can pin-point you to the simple steps that will push you past your barriers and create immense breakthroughs that can be seen and enjoyed immediately
- 18+ hours of personalised mentoring I spend all of my time and energy making sure that you experience the Social Heartistry philosophy, internal change, confidence and social & sexual freedom
- Live practical coaching at beaches, coffee shops, streets, bars, nightclubs. You’ll leave knowing absolutely how to interact with people in any location, and be able to do it yourself with freedom and without hesitation
- I’ll go in-depth with you on the 6 Golden Principles and how one small mindset shift removes all of the social demons of anxiety, rejection and pain, and how it turns “The Game” into “The Party.”
- Master your most valuable life skills whilst having the Adventure of a lifetime
This Course is perfect for
- Advanced students who have gone through the academy training program or have previous exposure to John’s material
- Men that have gone through pick up artist/game route and want to learn something more evolved and healthy
- Men wanting to learn about tantric sex and communication
- Those that want a holistic lifestyle change beyond women and have a high level of self-awareness
- An excellent team player who can support his fellow students
- Someone who is willing to stand the heat – The pace will be fast and exhilarating
+ accommodation included
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Buenos Aires Residential
Here’s what you’re looking at in Buenos Aires:
- Live training residential with personal mentorship from John
- Transform your social skills and master your interactions with everyone
- Have your wildest ever adventure in one of the most passionate city on earth.
- Buenos Aires’ golden beaches have long seduced visitors. Learn the art of social play in a playground that’s free and open to all, offering endless interactions mingling amid the passing parade of beautiful people.
- Music is the lifeblood of Buenos Aires – Learn how to find your rhythm and lead with your masculine edge with the latin-fueled nightlife.
- Explore your sexuality with the most exotic and sexually confident women anywhere in the world.
Itinerary
- 5 days of LIVE coaching so you can learn the art of connection, sexuality and social freedom.
- Maximum of 2 students allowed on course to optimise coaching.
- Around the clock support so you have intimate time with John to create a literal failure-is-impossible environment
- Hidden microphone sessions so I can pin-point you to the simple steps that will push you past your barriers and create immense breakthroughs that can be seen and enjoyed immediately.
- 30+ hours of personalised mentoring I spend all of my time and energy making sure that you experience the Social Heartistry philosophy, internal change, confidence and social & sexual freedom
- Live practical coaching at beaches, coffee shops, streets, bars, nightclubs. You’ll leave knowing absolutely how to interact with people in any location, and be able to do it yourself with freedom and without hesitation.
- I’ll go in-depth with you on the 6 Golden Principles and how one small mindset shift removes all of the social demons of anxiety, rejection and pain, and how it turns “The Game” into “The Party.”
- Master your most valuable life skills whilst having the Adventure of a lifetime.
This Course is perfect for
- Advanced students who have gone through the academy training program or have previous exposure to John’s material
- Men that have gone through the pick up artist/game route and want something more evolved and healthy
- Those that want a holistic lifestyle change and have high levels of self-awareness
- An excellent team player who can support his fellow students
- Someone who is willing to stand the heat – The pace will be fast and exhilarating
+ accommodation included
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Rio Residential Soon!
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Virtual 1-to-1 Coaching

Virtual 1-to-1 Coaching
60mins with John via Skype
- One-on-one with John Cooper
- Ask me any questions
- The fastest catalyst for change
- Homework exercises
- Support network access
- Advice for the future
Social Heartistry Academy
Overview
The most advanced program on social dynamics and personal mastery anywhere in the world
If you want to develop genuine social and sexual freedom, you have to move beyond the transactional nature of modern dating advice, develop an attractive self-esteem and become a true social artist. Rather than teach you the rudimentary “pick up” techniques, I will teach you the core principles that allow you to find your own unique voice and style. Instead of chasing success, you will discover fulfilment with women as well as in all other areas of your life. Be warned, this program is not for the faint-hearted or for those chasing sex. Only those that want to profoundly develop themselves read on…
Our philosophy
We focus primarily with the relationship with ourselves
The main focus of Social Heartistry is our relationships. That means with our sexual partners but also the relationships we have with our social world, meeting strangers and most importantly with ourselves. Healing the pain and emptiness inside and learning to be totally happy and fulfilled without the need for women.
Desiring women is fine.
Taking masculine action is fine. Craving for women like a starved wolf craves for food is certainly not. If you can embody concepts presented in this program, as a side effect the right women will be more into you than ever before.
As a result human relationships will not be a source of using each other to run away from our pain, but a place of beautiful and honest relations motivated by co-creation.
Simply put: You can have happiness and create intimacy with people you desire at the same time being fulfilled long-term.
- Stop chasing and start attracting
- Connect with people without using controlling tactics
- Attain real core confidence that is not dependent on any situation
- Move from working FOR a woman, to playing WITH women
- Express your sexuality in a way that makes women feel good
- Learn how to BE attractive not DO attraction strategies
- Turn acquisition on its head
- Dissolve inner obstacles & experience high breakthroughs
- Go deeper within yourself to go deeper with other people
- Move through the world with total freedom and youthful spirit
Let's do things differently
Introducing the Healthy Human Way
- Social Heartistry is about self-fulfilment and the sharing of this with others
- Look at women as entire subjects
- You are internally validated
- You have fun and let go, expressing honestly to people
- Feel that you are enough
- You feel strong and centred within yourself
- You feel already fulfilled with or without women
- Everything is light and carefree and you want to play with people
- You are driven by honesty and integrity in every action
- You don’t need to hide or mask your actions with fake confidence
- Connecting with women is healthy and effortless, it feels right
- Connect with their mind and soul as well as their body
- Feeling totally healthy, radiating and attractive
- Co-create and share yourself unconditionally
- Promotes simplified action
Inside The Social Heartistry Academy

30+ Videos
More then 30 videos that will explain in detail the 6 golden principles you need to know to master your inner and outer world.

Experienced Coaches
You’re in good hands. John has more then 7 years of experience and is widely regarded as a pioneer in the industry

6 Modules
The course is divided into 6 modules. To structure your learning accordingly we recommend working through each module separately.

PDF Support
Throughout the academy, there will be PDF’s of important theory so you can digest in your own time, and have more of an intellectual understanding of the video material

Private Community
Direct access to John and instant access to the private academy group, for ongoing support and to share stories and insights with a brotherhood

Extra Bonuses
Get huge discounts on live coaching programs (up to 30% off) by becoming an academy member
What's included
HD Quality Video Lessons
Menprovement and John Cooper have worked really hard to create the most powerful training product for you to watch and learn the exact steps you need to take to grow in your confidence with women and life in general.
- Transcend The Current Dating Model
- Learn Powerful Unconditional States of Being
- Step By Step Guide To Complete Inner Transformation
- Work Through The Layers Of Pain Created In Childhood
- Understand The Principles That Create Attraction
Amazing Side Effects
If you are still here it means that you are the guy who is driven by his heart. A true heartfelt warrior, and we want true warriors. For your interest let us show you some of the results and side effects that you are going to notice in 6 weeks:

Human Relationships
- Better Quality Connections
- Better Sex Life
- More Fulfilment

Emotional Wellbeing
- Healing The Inner Pain
- Inner Peace
- Feel Younger

Everyday Life
- More Creativity
- More Authenticity
- More Empathy

Spiritual Evolution
- Higher Resonance
- Higher Consciousness
- Attracting Better People

Most Fulfilled You
- Radiate Positive Energy
- No more Guilt or Shame
- Feel Powerful

Life Mission
- Unlocking Your Potential
- Finding Your Core Gift
- Finding Your Passion
Testimonials
Hear some of the many life-changing experiences from my Social Heartistry students.
Mads. D
I am grateful to John for the amount of heart and soul he poured into working with me. I had come out of a longterm relationship 4 months earlier and was ready to get serious about creating the kind of life I wanted with women.
For ages I had been reading on forums and watching YouTube "how to" videos but had no way of knowing what was really sound advice. I was wary about all the dating coaches that seemed to spring up everywhere with more or less dubious methods, ethics and credentials and didn’t want to throw a lot of money away on something that would make me feel dishonest and like a fraud. I got a recommendation for John and when we talked I could feel that we were on the same page.
Authentic, assertive, honest expression with no “gamey” flavours.
Undoubtably the best money I have spent on self development, ever, and I recommend John’s work to anyone serious about changing their life with women.
Alex. M
DO YOU REALISE WHAT YOU'VE DONE?
Dear John,
It is not about the girls, not about attraction or how to make them want to have sex that I have learned these days. I learned to let go and by doing that I am more and more free. I am afraid I will not recognize the place that I am returning to, I will not recognize the city that I've been living in for fifteen years because now I see the world differently. I now feel like writing poetry and music about what I feel when I meet women, John! This might actually be the thing that I was telling you is missing from my unfinished songs. Read these lines about how I felt when I met Katia from Ukraine at Starbucks this morning:
"You are Vienna, I am Budapest.
You are elegant, stylish and polite.
I am a bit dirtier but raw and intense.
Nothingness now starts to make sense.
You are Vienna I am Budapest."
The actual words or quality of the expression above is not important just as the fact that the outcome when interacting is not important. What is important is that it comes from Truth.
Do you realize what you have uncovered? You have opened something for the world to benefit. I will teach your art through music, poetry or whatever form of expression I might find can better deliver the message. I want others to see what I see.
Cheers
Alex.
Jörg. S
John is one of my 3 biggest inspirations in life. When I learned that giving is much more important than taking my whole life changed. I started to help and love people unconditionally. I received more enquiries relating my professional work, my network grew way faster and more sustainable and the best thing is that my relationship with my girlfriend became much deeper and stronger than ever before. Giving people love as well as trusting and encouraging them is now a big part of the way I live my life. John is one of my best recommendations for your personal development. Thanks for the inspiration, John.
Tom. C
BEFORE EVERY BREAKTHROUGH THERE IS A BREAKDOWN...
Last night I was moved to tears after a simple hug.
So why was that?
Well I’ve shared the last 5 days in Barcelona with this incredible soul.
John has helped me transcend some deep rooted fears and given me a new perspective on how I interact and show up in the world. The tears were of joy and gratitude because I was giving my love unconditionally in that moment and completely detached myself from any outcome or expectation. It’s hard to even describe in words because it was a feeling that erupted inside of me.
So thank you John, Samuel and Chris for your guidance and wisdom, and Ádám & Sean for your support. And of course the crazy fun times and laughs we have all shared.
Tom
Ezster. F
And then John Cooper came in. When he spoke I couldn’t even breath. It was an incredible experience, his every word touched me. If I had to highlight some critical parts it’d be these: "All you need is within you in this moment.” Yep, you can be whole, because the love you need is within you, and if you listen to it, you can feel it. Live your own wholeness, because this is the only way you can add to others life, too. And who gives can lose nothing. It is a strange paradox but the more you give, the more you get.
And with this incredible momentum and energy I left the training with I got back to my life with full of emotions.
What fascinating is that I experienced mindblowing things immediately the day after the training. I was leaving from work and going back to home when 3 different guys came to me and told me after 5 minute of acquaintance how sexy I was or left me with a hug, moved by „the touching vibe of mine”. I was just astonished. With that mindset and love that I had I got reflected it back from the world. It was like standing in front of a mirror and illuminate it with a lamp. So much light reflected back like it was almost more than I could handle.
Basically I could give with this energy fully to everyone I met since then, and I noticed that everybody wants to be with me.
John, I don’t know what happened with me on that training what shifted me like this, but I enjoy every moment of my life unbelievebly. I am present. I love who I am and I can accept others more this way, too.
I must mention that I seem to be a novice in this world as a woman, but it makes it more interesting and I have great plans with this are of my life!
All in all, who experience these feelings and mindset at once, won’t be able to live life other way after that.
I just want to say thank you.
Eszter
£497
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Empowering The Knight Within
Empowering the Knight Within - Full Weekend Seminar
Advanced Training For Men - Empowered Masculinity, Personal Mastery & Natural Attraction
In this powerful video series filmed over two days, we reveal the foundations of masculinity based upon centuries of archetypal mythology and ancient Toltec wisdom. We show you how to be assertive in your life and around women romantically, in the most honest way possible.
We live at a point in time where our masculinity is being castrated. As men we are being collectively blamed and shamed for the acts of a few. We also have no healthy male role models or compass to follow when it comes to showing up powerfully as a man. Our autonomy and sense of purpose has been sadly replaced with addictiveness, adolescence and pseudo-alpha maleness.
If you are prepared to step up in your life and be the man that women and the world deeply desire, then it is our promise that the very nature of this video series will burn away anything but the Empowered Knight Within.
Speakers
Chris Deojee
International Toltec & Ancient Wisdom Teacher, Worldwide Speaker on Gender, Electromagnetism and Linguistics.
Pioneer of new paradigm within dating community. Teacher, Relationships Expert and Social Artist.
Overview
What Prince was ever a man to look up to?
We have been fed the Prince Charming / Cinderella myth for far too long. No wonder there is frustration and confusion when it comes to showing up in the world. Not to mention around women.
The Knight is an older and stronger archetype that knows the REAL meaning of Integrity, Temper, Mettle and what it is to be a Just Warrior. This is symbolised through the knight’s personal flag, which is his rules, his values, his offerings. This includes his vulnerability, his authenticity and his courage for action.
WEEKEND WORKSHOP: Day one
The Gender Crisis & Evolved Masculinity
Part 1
The Myth of Patriarchy
As men we may not realise we carry the guilt and shame of men long dead or distant, loaded into us by culture and other women and men in our lives. This denies us the claiming, integration and development of our powerful masculine energy in the world. The men in society are quite literally "cuffed", "collared" and "tied".
Part 2
The Male Cycle – Taking Charge
We all know about the female hormone cycle but did you know there is a male hormone cycle too? That is why you may feel fully charged one day and 'spent' the next. Learning how to recognise and use our ‘peak times’ allows us to bring dynamic (or gentle) change to our lives and relationships. Whilst giving ourselves a breather from our own expectations of self at our 'low times'.
Part 3
The Mother/Boy Wound
The gender crisis has left us with a super-strong masculine archetype in the women, and a super-strong feminine archetype in the men. This creates the sticking point between men and women connecting in a healthy way (and is one of the causes of the perceived need for ‘Game’ to be able to connect with women). If you ever felt like a boy in your relationship, or you ever felt mothered – this is for you.
Part 4
The Pseudo-Alpha Male
You may have seen companies teach; how to be more "alpha". Tenuously linking it to some evolutionary theory. The perceived alpha male image used in society and the men's dating community is actually "the petulant boy" who is requiring constant validation from women and his peers. Here we dispel every ‘alpha’ myth, showing it to be a stagnant model of control/dictatorship stemming from the “Boy” archetype that cannot lead to anything lasting.
Part 5
Stop Being Yourself and Be-Come Yourself
“Just BE yourself!” This is the best and the worst advice you can get. “Being” is your feminine principle – acceptance, receptivity, softness. And the “Coming” is your masculine – it is that which is to come, your penetration into the world, your change, your aspiration. It’s not fully realised yet, but it's Coming. Acceptance and Change together is a Be-Coming.
Part 6
Attention & Intention
Attention is really about a-tension. When you’re drawn to porn, chocolate, cigarettes, hot woman, there is a-tension created. Understand and learn to work with this, and you will transform your life and move to mastery of your personal state. Where attention goes energy flows. (what we make important with attention, or not). Moving from fixed goals to intentions, and learning how tension works in social dynamics will also allow you to navigate with emotional intelligence and impact.
We’ll also cover
the Four Natural Enemies, Cues, Embodiment, Rites of Passage, the Five Agreements
WEEKEND WORKSHOP: Day two
Autonomous Man & Fearless Human Connection
Part 1
Autonomy and Letting Go
Are you filling a hole or feeling whole? The damaged masculine acts as an addict and goes on the incessant hunt for women and things to fill his hole. Part of the repair work is understanding how this comes from the disembodied mind, created through childhood imprints. Once the self is re-embodied, social interaction is a co-creation, sharing, overlapping, merging, yet both parties are complete with or without each other. This requires autonomy, redirected focus and letting go.
Part 2
The Player vs. the Worker
It's funny we call guys trying to get laid as “players” yet they are the ones working for a woman's affection and often the ones that struggle most with women. The true natural is one that is immersed in a constant state of play and that play trickles down to people around him. By moving from work to play, the man is always autonomous and attractive because his actions are unconditional - independent on reactions from anyone.
Part 3
Understanding Attraction on a Gender Level
Ever tried to “build” attraction and found you were repelling women? That's because attraction is actually a feminine principle not masculine. You don't DO attraction, you BE attractive. This is why women find barmen or men in uniform sexy. It is because it symbolises a strong sense of purpose and activity, which creates an osmosis-like effect.
Part 4
Masculine Edge: Leading with Empathy not Control
As with the intention section. There is a clear distinction between leading with empathy and leading with control. One is done as a process driven experience and the other is done as a strategy to acquire something. Boldly leading from a place of sharing is powerful, leading from a place of lack is repellent and selfish.
Part 5
Seduction is Reduction: The Spirit of the Child's Heart
The elusive state men are looking for is not an iron man facade. It is actually a revealing and unpacking. Instead of seeing it as a “getting in state” it is a dissolving into "flow". That flow is "Play, Giving and Exploration” and we all had it when we were children. Once we realise the access to our courageous self is within the eyes and heart of our child spirit, we reclaim the exuberance of life once more.
We’ll also cover
Tempered touch, The Dark Edge of Masculinity, and MORE
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